Frienzone? Yeah right

In the light of my recent rejection I deided to write a little bit about the friendzone and how people friendzone themselves and it's quite a douchey thing to do.

Let's put it like this. You go to one store to buy strawberries, but they only sell apples. What do you do?

a) Whine with other costumers about how the store is a bitch because it only offers apples and it should be selling strawberries just because you wanted them and need to be pleased.

b) You simply get out of the store to look for strawberries in another store.

c) You buy appples and decide to enjoy them and then go somewhere else to get strawberries.

I don't know, but for me the only good options for everyone are b and c. If someone can only offer you their friendship you can decide wheter to take it and look for love somewhere else or just stop talking (lying) to that person because you are not interested in their friendship but something else. Personally I prefer to keep the friendship, but that also depends of the other.

I don't think people friendzone someone, they are just offering something we don't want and if we decide to stay eventhough we don't like what they have to offer then we are friendzoning ourselves or as I call it, being idiots. If you want more than friendship tell the person, don't be a douche and fake a friendship that will only hurt you and make you feel resentment againts someone who did nothing wrong.